Build real connections through meaningful networking

Networking beyond the business card: building real connections

Networking is often framed as swapping business cards, giving a quick pitch, and hoping someone remembers you later. 

But anyone who has been in business for more than a minute knows that real growth happens long before a referral is passed. 

It begins with trust, shared experiences, genuine interest, and the small conversations that help people feel connected to you.

Inside TNG meetings, you get structure, support, and a community committed to your success. 

Outside those meetings is where relationships deepen. 

A catch up over coffee, a quick conversation at a community event, engaging with someone’s post online, or tagging a member in a local Facebook group can do more for your long term visibility than any single meeting.

This blog is all about that deeper layer of networking. The human layer. The part that builds confidence, connection, and a community that champions you when you are not in the room.

If you want a network that works for you all year round, this is where the magic happens.

  • Strong networks are built on genuine connection, not business cards.

  • Informal catch ups and social interactions create deeper trust.

  • Supporting each other online keeps you visible and top of mind.

  • Local community groups spark referral opportunities every week.

  • Consistency and care are the keys to long term networking success.

Why deeper, human connection drives stronger referrals

We often talk about who you know, but the truth is that referrals come from who knows you, likes you, and trusts you enough to stake their reputation on your work.

That trust doesn’t grow from perfectly structured pitches or polished presentations. 

It grows from conversations where people feel seen. 

It grows from shared moments. 

It grows from the sense that you genuinely care about the success of others.

Think about the people you refer most often. You know their story. You feel confident in what they do. You like how they show up. Those feelings come from relationship, not just repetition.

People refer people they know, like, and trust. Authentic connection is what gets you there.

How informal catch ups strengthen your network

There is enormous value in stepping outside the meeting room. Coffee catch ups, casual lunches, walking meetings, and spontaneous conversations all help build rapport in a way that structured meetings cannot.

You get to understand someone’s personality, not just their pitch.
You see the person behind the business.
You get to talk about things other than work, which makes everything feel more natural.

And because these interactions feel relaxed, people tend to open up more. They remember those moments. They feel more connected. 

And as a result, they are more confident referring you.

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Casual conversations create connection, and connection creates opportunity.

The power of supporting each other online

Your online presence is part of your networking toolkit, whether you think of it that way or not. 

When people engage with your posts, you reach more eyes. When you engage with theirs, you help them reach more people too.

And when a whole group engages together, visibility multiplies.

Supporting each other online is one of the easiest and most effective ways to deepen your connections. It takes seconds, but the ripple effect can be huge.

Simple actions matter:

  • Follow and connect with fellow members on your business accounts.

  • Like and comment on their posts.

  • Share content when it fits your audience.

  • Congratulate achievements and milestones.

  • Tag members when you see opportunities that suit them.

These actions show two things clearly:
You care, and you’re paying attention.

Online support keeps you visible, strengthens relationships, and helps everyone grow.

Why community Facebook groups are a goldmine for referrals

Referrals often begin long before a business meeting. 

They start in neighbourhood chats, parenting groups, buy-sell pages, and local community forums.

Every week, people ask:

  • Who knows a reliable electrician?

  • Can anyone recommend a mortgage adviser?

  • Does anyone have a great accountant?

  • Looking for a web designer. Suggestions?

The business owners who show up and add value build trust quickly. The members who tag each other compound that trust.

This is not about selling. 

It’s about being part of the wider community conversation and making sure your group is part of it too.

When you show up in community groups, you give your business and your fellow members a wider reach.

Creating connection all year round

Networking is not a twice monthly activity. It is an ongoing practice.
It is built from small, thoughtful actions repeated over time.

A supportive comment.
A shared post.
A coffee catch up.
A quick check in.
A tag in a local group.
A message to celebrate someone’s win.

These moments create the momentum that leads to collaboration and referrals. When you show up for others consistently, people remember you. They trust you. They want to help you succeed.

Consistent connection is what transforms a group of contacts into a true network.

FAQs about networking beyond the business card

How do I build stronger relationships without feeling like I am selling?

Ask questions, listen well, and show interest beyond business. Networking becomes easier when the pressure to sell disappears. Read more about networking etiquette. 

What should I do if I am introverted or still new to networking?

Start with one person at a time. Build a few deeper connections first. The confidence comes naturally. Read more about how TNG meetings can help you build confidence. 

How can I support others online in a meaningful way?

Engage with intention. Comment with value, celebrate their wins, and share their posts when relevant.

Do community Facebook groups really make a difference?

Yes. Facebook community groups are one of the most common places where locals look for recommendations. They’re a great way to create links to your website, blogs or social media pages. From here, not only the person asking the questions can learn more about you, but others who might be interested too. 

What is the easiest way to stay connected consistently?

Schedule regular one on one catch ups, support members online, and keep showing up. Small actions add up. 

So, there are plenty of ways to stay connected and make the most of your TNG membership

Networking is not about collecting contacts. It is about building relationships. When you show genuine interest, offer support, and stay connected offline and online, you create a strong foundation for referrals and collaborations that last.

Your network grows when you invest in it. Your visibility increases when you show up. And your confidence builds when you are surrounded by people who know you, like you, and want you to succeed.

If you are ready to deepen your connections and surround yourself with people who champion your business all year long, now is the perfect time.

Book a visit to a TNG group near you and discover how powerful a supportive network can be.
And stay connected by following TNG on social media for inspiration, updates, and member stories.

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Ready To Grow Your Business?

Join the leading community of Kiwi entrepreneurs for powerful networking and referral opportunities.

INFO

16b Tarndale Grove, Rosedale, Auckland 0632,

021 209 3210

sales@tng.org.nz

© 2025 The Networking Group (2012) Limited

Ready To Grow Your Business?

Join the leading community of Kiwi entrepreneurs for powerful networking and referral opportunities.

INFO

16b Tarndale Grove, Rosedale, Auckland 0632,

021 209 3210

sales@tng.org.nz

© 2025 The Networking Group (2012) Limited